3 days akong offline, from sunday hanggang kanina, ngayon lang ako nakapagpost, at nakapagbloghop. at nagulat ako, after 3 days of not doing anything, mukhang nagkakagulo na sa blogosphere.
this is a free country, everyone can say whatever he wants. some people might favor your opinion, some might not. di ba? e bakit nyo ba inopen yung comment box, tapos kapag may nagcomment ng masama, you'll take it against them? come on, blog mo yan, kung hindi mo trip yung mga komentaryo nya, pwede mo namang idelete, you are the master of your own blog. kayo? may nakita na ba akong nakaaway dito? leave a nasty comment and i'll just delete it, ni hindi nila mapapansin na dumaan ka. sabi nga nung nabasa ko, being ignored, mas masakit than being hated.
now, can you blame someone for posting nasty comments on your blog? e kung hindi nya trip yung sinulat mo, nilagyan mo sya ng option to react, natural magrereact yan. tapos, usok na tenga mo kapag nabasa mo? e blog lang yan, kaw naman may-ari, e di idelete mo.
sa nangyayari ngayon, same ip address... magkaibang personality... etc, etc. hhhmmm.. nakakapagtaka, di ba? but everything has an explanation... ito po, nagexplain na si mildred sa blog at sa mansyon namin, bahala na kayo kung maniniwala kayo o hindi. di ko pa sila nameet, pero nakausap ko na sila, thru text, call and email. sila, iisa? natatawa talaga ako. parang sinabi nyo na rin na ako at si francis, iisa, kasi, pareho IP address namin... pati pala si marco, iisang IP ang ginagamit namin... magkakaibang laptop ang gamit namin, pero iisang IP. what more yung most of the time, iisang laptop yung ginagamit?
ngayon, sa lahat ng nagpost ng masama, nanlait, nagmura sa pinsan ko... isa lang masasabi ko.. kung dyan kayo masaya, suportahan taka... and May GOD bless you. sana, masaya na kayo matapos nyo syang pagpyestahan...
Visitor friendly site??? how could you be friendly with your visitors if you hate your neighbors??? parang ang sama yata ng ugali nyo... welcome kayo dito! pero wag kayong dadaan dun sa kabila! hahahaha!!! ang babait nyo! hindi nyo pa naririnig yung explanation ng kabilang panig, kanya kanya na kayong tirada.
ok, the comment box is open... ako naman ang tirahin nyo... pareho kami ng IP address ni francis... anyway, iL just delete all your nasty comments... hehehehe.
11 comments:
kakaibang marhgil nadatnan ko ngaun? ikaw ba yn? nabasa ko lahat pati na lahat ng mga "bwelta" sa insan mo bilib ako sau kukote! tama ka, tinimbang nila ngunit kulang. Pano ba magpaayos ng metro ng timbangan hehe!
hndi ako makapg comment mashdo kc deyn ko pa naba2sa ung mga tirada nla kay nao.. bisitahin ko nga after nito.. nabsa ko lang ung sa mansyon at akoy nabigla sa mga aking nabsa tsk tsk.. sna maayos din yang gulong yan..at sa mga taong walang magawa na nanggu2lo.. MAY GOD BLESS THEM ALL ika mo nga.. ;)
ay ganda.... mga okrayan... masubaybayan nga ito! ;)
Mildred nagsumbong ka pala dito kay tito? hehehe wala pa nga akong sinasabi kong ano ano na yang lumalabas sa bunganga mo :) bakit ka nag post na nag spent ng dollar si nao.....at di mo pino post anong pinag usapan namin? hahaha
tapos kong ano ano na yang lumalabas sa mouth mo. Relaks ka lang noh!
Ako'y matinong tao at di bastos 'k? kaya relaks babe.
Tito Aga, soory yong unang post ko medyo na out of topic dito! So far, wala namang taong naninira sa comments page ko pero sa tagboard ko meron nang naninira pero matagal na yon, nahuli ko rin sila...pinatawad ko na dahil nag sory nga, eh mga sweet 16 na studyante jan sa pinas, walang magawa napag tripan yong site ko :)
Pero sa mga kalokohang matagal na palang nangyayari sa blog ko, kong di lang lumabas ang isyong 'to di ko malalaman na may dalawang tao nag iiwan ng comments iisa lang ip nila, imagine lahat ng comments nila.
mar,
sorry kung naapektuhan ang pagtingin mo sa akin dahil sa mga pangyayari. ang masasabi ko lang open-minded ako at willing akong pakinggan lahat ng sides. unfortunately, late yung post ni M. nakapagpost na ako bago lumabas ang explanation niya. humingi ako ng explanation dun sa site ni N pero dinelete lang niya yung comment ko. so what can i do if i don't know when the explantion might come?
anyway, i've asked ethel to verify all the IP address or addresses na ginamit ni M. kasi kung more than one IP ang ginamit niya it means kung minsan gamit niya laptop ni N, minsan naman sarili niyang PC. kaya lang na-confirm ni Ethel na sa LAHAT (hindi lang iilan) ng comments ni M na ginawa sa ibat-ibang dates in Sept/Oct, iisang IP lang nanggaling lahat.
hindi ba logical lang na may at least dalawang IP gamit si M? yung kanya talaga at yung kay N (kung nanghiram siya ng laptop). at sa dalawang IP na ito, mas maraming times na ginamit niya yung kanya talaga.
gusto ko man maging open-minded dito at bigyan siya ng benefit of the doubt, nahihirapan ako. i'm only making my judgement based on the hard-evidence i see.
bakit di tayo magtulungan in trying to find out the truth? pwede kang makatulong ma-clarify itong issue na ito by looking up the IP addresses used by M and N sa site mo at dun sa mansyon niyo (dapat before Oct 17 para believable, kasi i'm sure ngayon di na nanghihiram ng laptop si M). kung ayaw mong i-publish yung findings mo, nasa iyo na yon. at least nag-try kang makita ang evidences firsthand.
btw, i never questioned the identity of M. i know she exists and is possible that she writes some of the comments herself. the contention was that N writes and signs as M in lots of comments and posts.
if i made an error in judgement i'm willing to make a retraction and apologize as i did before to those people concerned. let's help each other find the truth and let's base our judgment on hard facts hindi sa sabi-sabi lang. madali kasing sabihin yung nanghiram ng laptop. one last thing, try mong i-view yung source code ng site ni M. you'll find something interesting. sorry napahaba ito.
hahahah, hoy mildred! template ng kaluskos si nao ang gumawa? huh! sa best pren ko yan noh! kay sunshine designz, minorder lang nya! she don't know how to follow the terms of use, kahit binili nya yon di mawala ang credits noh! hahah huli pa ring ang kasinungalingan mo. kaya sabi ko na nga ba eh, ingat lang sa mga bunganga kala nyo kasi kayo lang ang may alam :)
wag na po tayong mag-away dito... please put jesus in your hearts at magpatawaran na po tayo... kung ayaw nyo, bahala na sa inyo si lord.
tayo kaya mag away marhgil????? hehehe... ;)
I can't help myself not to say something about what is going on right now. I don't know the real story or should I say, what is the root of all this stuff and whatever it was, I don't have the position to give any judgment. I can't consider myself as one of Nao's friend for we never chat, talk as what friends does or never did I consider as her enemy. I'm just one of those who observed and read blogs I hopped. I don't know you all, except for the one who owns this blog.
I would like to address my comment to EVERYBODY, no exemptions and no biases for I don't want to cling on one side.
First, to those who keep on giving their comments about who's right or wrong...who's to blame and not to blame, to those who keep on saying that they want to end this stuff and that they'd want peace and harmony in blogsphere and yet with extra side comments included to throw away to the other group, why not keep yourelf away from the keyboard or from your PC if you don't have any good things to share? Please don't raise your brow; I don't want to offend anybody. I just want to give my side as to what I've observed.
Are we really sincere upon saying that..."we hope everything would be okay and that we're peacekeeper here " and yet can't help ourselves not to give negative comments on both groups? I don't think so. What's the point in saying all those things if we don't mean it? Do you think it would lessen the problem? I admit, at first I made comments too...anonymously but I've come to realized I shouldn't have done it. But, not that kind of comment who judge the merits and faults of that person, for I know I don't have the right to do such thing. Even if you know that person very well, still, we don't have the right to criticize her/him/them for nobody is perfect. We all have flaws, so why mind others flaws if we have our own to mind?
Everything has said and damage has been done. Isn't it too much??? To Ka uro, dops, kadyo, raquel, darlene, mommy lei, sol and the rest of the group, we all know how/what you've felt about what happened and for some reasons you opted to keep your silence. These shouldn't come this far if at the very start you have settled this up and put this to an end, but again, this is not the time to blame who's to blame.
To mildred, you've said a lot, I think it's enough.The more you react and the more nasty things you would say can do no good to end this feud. Don't take it againts you, just an advice, it's up to you then if you would accept it knowing that it came from me.
To Nao, try to figure things out. We all have mistakes and what we can do is to accept it. There's nothing wrong admiting our faults and if everybody needs an apology from you, why not give the heart to do it? For me, it's not who should ask for an apology, if both parties need to do so, why not? Everybody needs harmony anyways, so who should do the first move? It's not that asking for an apology would simply mean that you're at fault or in guilt. It's just that, you're putting this stuff to end.
To all, we are old enough to entertain this non-sense feud. Most of us are professionals, so why not act one? Let bygones be bygones, let us all forgive and forget.
Hope everything would be fine.
Naisip ko lang... mahirap ba or mabigat ba sa loob humingi ng sorry???
wala lang.
Shella
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